Created by daters, for daters
We are a small group of people who got tired of paying for dating apps that promised the world and delivered three ghosted conversations. So we started a spreadsheet. Then a group chat. Then this.
We discuss and review every website we can get an account on, we share the good stories and the disastrous ones, and we answer each other's questions. Dater.com is that community made public — not just another review site with affiliate links.
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We test everything ourselves
Real accounts, real photos, real months of use. If we did not use it, we do not rate it.
Stories over star ratings
A number cannot tell you what a Tuesday night on an app feels like. Our members can.
No paid placements
Nobody can buy a better position. When that changes, we will say so on this page first.
A community, not an audience
Members send us screenshots, price changes and gossip. We check it and publish what holds up.